New Thoughts. New Lifestyle. New Life.

Change your thoughts and you change your world. - Norman Vincent Peale

The mind is a truly fascinating place and the more we learn about it, the more we realize just how true this statement is.  In fact, to say that the mind is fascinating is a bit of an understatement.

Recent studies by neuroscientists have shed new light on the mind and, thereby, made it even more fascinating.  These experts support the claim that we’ve always driven home, here on Out of Bounds:  We are much more in control of our minds, our thoughts, and our lives than we realize.

Consider this:

Your mind, on average processes 60,000 thoughts each day.  Since most thinking is done on autopilot with the mind thinking the same habitual thoughts over and over again, the human mind “syndicates” many of its original thoughts in the same way TV Land syndicates favorite sitcoms.

Not only does the brain play our thoughts out as re-runs, it even protects our habits, whether they’re good or bad.  These habits become Engrained Habits and, like our thoughts, they pretty much act themselves out with little input from us.

Experts say that when we’ve repeated a new thought or practiced a new habit for about 90 days (basically 3 months), it becomes part of the brain architecture… part of our hardwiring.

Remember the saying, first we make our habits and then our habits make us?  Voila, another understatement.

Amazing how everything goes back to our thoughts, isn’t it?  Everything begins as a thought – our every action, our every word, our every habit.  They each were conceived with a single thought.  If that’s not a wake up call to guard our thoughts, I don’t know what is.

We have about 60,000 thoughts each day.  Do you realize the power behind that statistic?

How much power could you generate in your life with 60,000 daily thoughts?

How much destruction could you unleash upon your life with 60,000 daily thoughts?

Positive thinking breeds a positive mindset, positive habits, and positive repercussions. Negative thinking breeds a negative mindset, negative habits, and negative repercussions.

The good news is that we CAN change the way we think.   My favorite illustration of this fact:  Clear your mind for a second.  Now think of a Beagle Puppy.  He’s lying in the green grass, looking at you – cuter than anything has a right to be!

Do you see the puppy?

Now think about a $100 bill.  See Benjamin Franklin’s face in the middle, with the number 100 written boldly in each corner?

So.  Where’d the beagle puppy go?

“It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.” - Robert H. Schuller

This exercise is proof positive that you can push one thought aside for another thought.  Personally, in this case, I’d rather think about the puppy – but you get the idea.  When we have negative, destructive thoughts, we can easily push them aside and think about something positive instead.

Truth be told, it’d be better to think about the beagle puppy than it would be to think negative thoughts – so, when a negative, destructive, critical thought pops into your mind, replace it automatically with the image of a beagle puppy.  Then, move on to a more positive thought pattern.

Remember, the more time you spend with a negative thought, the greater its power is to harm you. Take this power and make it work for you!  Think positive thoughts and repeat positive affirmations.

As Henri Matisse said, “There are always flowers for those who want to see them.”  Or beagle puppies…..

Choose the Subject of Your Thoughts Carefully

Think PositivelyRemember in high school when you were faced with the task of choosing subjects for the upcoming semester?  If you were planning for college, you were careful to select subjects that would meet your chosen school’s criteria.  If you had a career in business in mind, you chose classes that would prepare you for that road. 

If you went to college, you became even more expereinced in choosing subjects.

The subjects we chose in school determined our degree and shaped our education.  Good selection was of the utmost importance! However, we choose even more important subjects on a daily basis without even truly realizing it.  Yet these very choices determine far more than an education or degree – they determine our character and shape our life. 

I’m talking, of course, about our thoughts.  Our thoughts are often found woefully lacking, which sadly, rubs off onto our character.  Given the fact that our character pretty much determines the life we’ll lead, it’s easy to see why we should start paying A LOT more attention to the thoughts that we allow, and even invite, into our heads.

In a brilliant little book titled Inspiration and Ideals, from 1917, Grenville Kleiser put it this way:

If you once form the habit of selecting and dwelling upon important subjects only, you will have neither time nor inclination for the petty worries that beset so many lives.  Anxiety, irritation, despair, fear and the like, are mental, and therefore must be destroyed mentally.  As you realize the folly of these habits, you will more diligently strive to eliminate them from your life.  They are not only worthless, but a serious handicap in the face for success.  Think constructively, and doubtful and discordant elements will fall away from inanition (starvation).

I love that – starve negativity to death!

Notice how he refers to negative thoughs as “a serious handicap?”  If we were to start thinking of the following thoughts as handicaps, I’m certain we’d work harder to get rid of them:

  • Worries
  • Regrets
  • Guilt
  • Self Doubt
  • Self Ridicule
  • Pointless Daydreams
  • Anger

Let’s vow to start recognizing these negative thoughts the very minute they show up.  Instead of inviting them to kick up their heels and get comfortable, let’s show them the door pronto. After all, if they’re invited in, they’ll invite other unsavory characters over and…well, nothing good will come from any of it.

Just as we’re careful about the people we associate with, we have to be careful about the thoughts we entertain. 

Positive, constructive thoughts will take us places!  Negative, destructive thoughts will take us nowhere.

Positive, constructive thinking will make us.  Negative, destructive thinking will break us.

The choice is ours.

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